I'd make a video tutorial but no.
I have a drum fetish and strive to learn the ways of those I look up to as "beat pioneers" [nominees include Boards of Canada, Thievery Corporation, Dj Shadow, Dead Maw Five, etc]
This is a technique I sometimes use when aiming for a fat acoustic house sort of kick. I sample a cool sounding kick off some old motown song or something. The kick sounds cool and all, but dirty and weak. Lettuce fix that.
I use the noise gate in Logic to cut off any ugly tail that follows the kick. I set the decay so it fades out smoothly and sounds natural. Ramp off most freqs below 250 and lower around the 200 range to get rid of the muddiness [though this is the freq that strengthens the snare]. Boost around 5 to 10 to get some crispness, or notch it to enhance the snare. 12 is a good freq to boost for crisp hats. A lot of the eqing depends on the kick you're working with so it's best to know what the song calls for rather than listen to me.
Layer that shit with a 909 kick and bam. You may need to tweak the higher freqs of the bassy, meatier 909 kick to where you can't quite tell it apart from the acoustic kick, and make them blend together smoothlier. I often call this the 'low' kick, as it gives it the bass needed to make the wimmins squeal.
After the basics I like to start messing with the acoustic [high] kick. I like to add a stereo spread or make it somehow cover the stereo spectrum to give it a wider sound and add a dab of overdrive [your kick will sound more like a dead maw five kick like that]. If the kick is too quick and clean try increasing the delay of the 909 longer as well as the release on the noise gate. I'm not going to get into reverb but if done right it means a stones throw difference.
Snares are easier to work with imo... it's easier to make snares compliment the drums. The 200 range for snares gives it it's meatiness but try to not let it interfere with the kick [Personally I mostly ramp off everything under 200 ish if it's not a kick or bass]. Layer a few claps and time them just a tinsy bit before the 'boom' of the kick, add a quick sidechain to duck the snare, and you got yourself a bitchin house beat. An example of me using a similar technique to this can be heard here.
Be sure to add compression to things that need to be compressed, and if you don't know much about compression, learn it. Parallel compression also helps with the punchiness.
There's a lot I didn't cover but there is no strict formula to achieving this sound, this is just what I've come up with over the past few years of trying things out. I hear buzz generators are good but I don't have FL studio and it's hard to find em nowadays.
How are some ways you like to make kicks?
Here are more examples where I used a similar technique as above. Has anyone noticed how delicious a dab of flange juice sounds on hihats? Mmm~
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MLjKR-GNFxM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Wjv7UY8kqo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NSVl5P8Kl38 - The ending bit.