by Bronies Are Cool » 20 Apr 2014 20:55
my day was somewhat shitty. i am sick, had lotsa chores to do, and am pretty ticked at my parents for their stupidity.
over the weekend, i went skiing with joy (my girlfriend) and my dad and cici (sister) and jacob (brother). and on the trip down the mountain, joy was tired. so she laid down and put her head on my lap. We were in the back of the van, not the very back, but the middlle row of the van. (cuz there is a front, a back, and a very back.) She wanted my to lay my arm across her belly, so I did. I was looking foward out the windshield most of the trip down the mountains, and I had my sun glasses on too. my dad (whjo was driving) thought I was staring at him. and he looked back at us and thought we might be doing something we were not supposed to because her head was on my lap and my arm was on her belly. He put down some visor thing so he could see in the back. And when I got home, he pulled me aside and told me that he was concerned that we were going to "do something" in the back of the car and he really was concerned that cici (she was sitting in the passenger seat) would wake up and turn around and see something going on. And he said that I was acting really strange because I was staring at him the whole time (which i wasnt) and that after we dropped her off at her house, I was looking out the side window. That made him think i was staring at him.
on the way down the mountain, we got lunch at some bbq house, I had gotten a hot link. I wasnt all that hungry, so I didnt finish the hot link. He said I was "acting different" because I didnt finish it and would not admit that it was really hot. And that normally I would eat 10, but this time I didnt. So he said that I was acting really different.
And, then today, my mom decides to go all faggot on me and tell me off about how inappropriate she was being. Apparently, just laying her head down on my lap is super inappropriate. And she is telling me that I am really irresponsible. She was also telling me that I ditched my sister on the mountain which was not true because she ditched me. My mom wasn't even there. Cici, Joy and I were supposed to meet up at the bottom of the slope and stick together. Cici was going down the hill slightly slow, and Joy went down really slow. I stuck with joy to help her get down because she wasnt the best boarder. And when we were at the bottom, we did not see cici. while we were down there, we decided to fix something that was wrong with Joy's board because there was a problem. and while we were down there, I got a call on my walki-talki from my dad. he was upset that I was not with Cici. I didn;t even see her at the bottom, she went up the mountain without waiting. She left me and Joy. But, my mom told me that I was the one who ditched her because I am the older one who was supposed to watch after her. She also said that I never got on the radio to talk to cici to make sure she was ok. But, I didnt need to because she was constantly on the radio with jake and my dad. I knew she was fine because I could hear them talking back and forth.
So now, my parents think that me and Joy are inappropriate and that I am really irresponsible.
What I really cannot understand is why my parents assume the worst in me. They never talk to me, they never are curious about anything that interests me. They only care about disciplining me for the stupidest things and telling me that i am irresponsible and make me feel like a shit person. Why can't they ever just listen to me when I talk and believe me when I say something. Why is it so hard to believe that I wasn't really all that hungry?
I dont understand my parents. They had sex before marriage and thats ok. but my gf laying on my lap is sooo bad. what moral do they live by?