I joined the fandom in late July, which coincidentally was also the same time period a large portion of new bronies came. Up until that point, the fires of the fandom had only spread to certain places after 4chan, so there were more people who had no idea about it, and were more willing to embrace it, because it was new.
Fast forward to today, and we find ourselves in a stalemate. The majority of the world knows about bronies. They know the show the fandom is based on, and at this point in the fandom, we should still be welcoming more and more people to the herd, but we aren't. In fact it's the opposite, and we're losing people in the fandom, some of whom were very well known and respectable bronies. Here's what I've personally seen in regards to the overall changes in the fandom.
More Hate
Back in August, I recall seeing a nightly roundup featuring a clip from the Christian TV Network titled, "Is My Little Pony Satanic?" Obviously it entitled some very extremist views by the show's hosts, but what I recall clearly from that roundup, were the comments.
Absolutely no hate. I personally read through the entire 300+ comments that were mostly in response to that clip alone, and what I saw amazed me. Atheists, Agnostics, Jews, Muslims, Christians, and Catholics, all discussing the video, with respect to eachother's beliefs.
Take this same situation anywhere else on the internet, and you would have had an enormous religious debate, riddled with personal attacks, and denouncing eachother's beliefs.
Nowadays, you can't post a simple update about a person's account being trolled off YouTube without seeing this in the comments.
>because they're goddamn communists
Retarded americunt detected, please die in a Fire.
This is just the tip of the iceberg too. Past issues such as the Pony Archive cease and desist, the trolled crackdown on YouTube episodes everyone assumed was Hasbro itself, etc. have all been riddled with comments such as the one above.
Clopping/R34 Issues
Rule 34...no exceptions, we all know what it means. Clopping. According to a recent poll, 1 in 5 are into it.
The issue I once believed was the result of the fandom giving more publicity about this, but that isn't the issue, nor is it an issue with r34 artwork, clopfics, or saucy videos and/or pics.
The issue is the division that has resulted in the community. On one hand you have fans who are afraid of the damages to perception of the overall fandom, and on the other hand, you have those that believes the fandom should be tolerant of all kinds of artwork and types of people.
I guess you could say this after I found myself in a nasty comment exchange over a picture on deviantArt, but the issue is not with the artwork itself, but the drama it causes between those who support it, and those who don't.
Diss Order didn't quit over the fact r34 got posted. He quit because of the ensuing drama that resulted, and having been in many online gaming clans and communities since 1997, I can state with absolute certainty that drama kills everything. People don't trust eachother, constant fights break out, and it eventually tumbles into a mess where the only ones left are the extremists on either side, and they can never recover.
Trolls
We've always had parasprites since the beginning, but they have adapted to us and improved their ways of getting to us, and we've stuck to the same defenses since the beginning, which surprisingly, would still work, except we've forgotten the entire defense itself, which leads me to...
What can we do about it?
Oh boy, here we go, have some copy paste from my reply to the Alex S. topic on EQD:
So take the time to remember the Hearth's Warming Eve episode. It's symbolic with this situation in so many ways it's downright creepy, but we aren't following the wisdom in it.
The parasprites are feeding off our frustration. They want us to lash back at them, to report them, to attack their websites, and to bicker against eachother. They want to prove that we're just like them, to bring us down to their level, and it's starting to work.
However, if you want to truly defeat these parasprites:
Don't attack their websites.
Don't flag their own videos.
Don't acknowledge them, and don't argue with them.
Our biggest weapon has been our own elements of harmony.
Honesty - We are true to our selves and to others.
Generosity - Smile! Christmas Charity Album. HumbleBundle. BronyPatches. Bronies give to the community for their enjoyment and expect nothing in return.
Kindness - We don't hate anybody. We can get frustrated, but we show respect and kindness to the haters, regardless of what they do, and that kindness is unwavering.
Laughter - Parodies, comics, memes, etc. The Brony Show, Brony Movie Night, and the show itself. We don't attack the haters, we laugh at how silly they are.
Loyalty - We do not abandon our friends. We support those who have been trolled. We let them know we've got their back, but most importantly, WE DO NOT argue or attack our own.
Magic - We're the odd balls of the internet, simply because we were spawned from the most cynical place on the internet, and yet have flourished everywhere whilst remaining non-confrontational and tolerating of others. That in itself, is magic.
The choice is yours fellow bronies. You can continue to argue amongst yourselves and stoop down to the troll's level by lashing out at them in retaliation, or you can take a deep breath, watch the first couple episodes again, and embrace the elements of harmony that keep this fandom strong!
We've essentially forgotten the elements that brought us together, and as a result, we have divided amongst ourselves. If we truly want to keep this fandom going strong, we need to learn what we did wrong, put these incidents behind us, and band together once again with our love for the show itself, not for the memes that have resulted, or as musicians, artists, etc. Everybody needs to think back to what made them become a brony in the first place, and we can bounce back stronger than ever.
Let's show these trolls the true meaning of love and tolerance!